"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ShoULd I WiFE hEr

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theres this girl in school who had a crush on me for a couple weeks. HEr friend had a crush on me first so i bet that made her want me more. So anyways, today i fvcked her and she wants to be my girl friend. Im a senior in H.S n shes a sophomore but shes only a year yonger. the problem is that i don't know if this girl is wifey (GF) material. she says she fvck 3 dudes b4 me, which isn't good. She also called her self a slut one time which might be just joking. But i take that type of sh1t serious. I ask this guy that knows her (he gay) if she loose and he says shes decent. Right now im thinkin about not wifing her but the though crosses my mine. If faithfulness n the possible slut factor wasen't an issue then she would have more of a chance. She does look good BTW. WHAT Do ya think?

p.s. i have more options so cutting her is no problem.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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It's been my experience that you should always follow your gut instinct. If something doesn't seem right, and you're asking these sorta questions from the get-go, then I'd say forget about it.
 

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im sorry this is really irelavant but is his name ************...............wow!
 

penkitten

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dont say wife unless you really really really know her and want to make her your wife.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In nyc we say wifey meaning girl friend...i don't participate in the forum but i being here longer then most, i just log on every couple months, SO U STOLE MY NAME...lol.

I can tell most times if a girl is loose, but this one i feel might be acting extra perfect to get to me. So how can i tell if she is doing this?
 
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