"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ShoULd I WiFE hEr

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theres this girl in school who had a crush on me for a couple weeks. HEr friend had a crush on me first so i bet that made her want me more. So anyways, today i fvcked her and she wants to be my girl friend. Im a senior in H.S n shes a sophomore but shes only a year yonger. the problem is that i don't know if this girl is wifey (GF) material. she says she fvck 3 dudes b4 me, which isn't good. She also called her self a slut one time which might be just joking. But i take that type of sh1t serious. I ask this guy that knows her (he gay) if she loose and he says shes decent. Right now im thinkin about not wifing her but the though crosses my mine. If faithfulness n the possible slut factor wasen't an issue then she would have more of a chance. She does look good BTW. WHAT Do ya think?

p.s. i have more options so cutting her is no problem.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's been my experience that you should always follow your gut instinct. If something doesn't seem right, and you're asking these sorta questions from the get-go, then I'd say forget about it.
 
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im sorry this is really irelavant but is his name ************...............wow!
 
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dont say wife unless you really really really know her and want to make her your wife.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In nyc we say wifey meaning girl friend...i don't participate in the forum but i being here longer then most, i just log on every couple months, SO U STOLE MY NAME...lol.

I can tell most times if a girl is loose, but this one i feel might be acting extra perfect to get to me. So how can i tell if she is doing this?
 
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