"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ShoULd I WiFE hEr

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theres this girl in school who had a crush on me for a couple weeks. HEr friend had a crush on me first so i bet that made her want me more. So anyways, today i fvcked her and she wants to be my girl friend. Im a senior in H.S n shes a sophomore but shes only a year yonger. the problem is that i don't know if this girl is wifey (GF) material. she says she fvck 3 dudes b4 me, which isn't good. She also called her self a slut one time which might be just joking. But i take that type of sh1t serious. I ask this guy that knows her (he gay) if she loose and he says shes decent. Right now im thinkin about not wifing her but the though crosses my mine. If faithfulness n the possible slut factor wasen't an issue then she would have more of a chance. She does look good BTW. WHAT Do ya think?

p.s. i have more options so cutting her is no problem.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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It's been my experience that you should always follow your gut instinct. If something doesn't seem right, and you're asking these sorta questions from the get-go, then I'd say forget about it.
 

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im sorry this is really irelavant but is his name ************...............wow!
 

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dont say wife unless you really really really know her and want to make her your wife.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In nyc we say wifey meaning girl friend...i don't participate in the forum but i being here longer then most, i just log on every couple months, SO U STOLE MY NAME...lol.

I can tell most times if a girl is loose, but this one i feel might be acting extra perfect to get to me. So how can i tell if she is doing this?
 
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