"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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should i trash the digits?

Chilli_pimp

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here's this situation...
i met a chick in class.. she's a bit older than me, well established (as in, living on her own, owns her own car, etc; with the help of her parents of course) we've been talkin and flirtin throughout the whole semester... neway, ima get to the point:
a week b4 exams, i called her up and had a short and sweet convo, and ended it by asking her if she wanted to chill right after we took our exam... she agreed, and it was on... just to add on, we only have this class once a week, so we never see each other throughout the week..
anyway, i came a lil late to my exams so i had to sit at an open corner of the room... an hour through, she finished, handed her test in, and left the room... i assumed that she was probably waitin for me outside, so i hurried to finish mine. i finished a half hour after her, and when i looked around outside, she was gone... i tried callin her cell, but she wasn't pickin up... so i left a brief voicemail, "hey its 'chillipimp', what happened to you? call me back"
its been 2, almost 3 days... i was thinkin, why should i waste my time tryna get an answer from her... but still, should i try one last time... or should i scrap her number, cuz i left her msg, and she should be gettin back at me...
or am i thinkin too much and find some new meat...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wiesman44

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Yah, next her. She would have returned your voice message. She obviously got it.
 

Chilli_pimp

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UPDATE...

so its been a week... 2 nite while i was at work, i got a private number on my cell.. it was her... she was acting like everything was cool, asking me if i already registered for my next sem courses... (i saw this as an excuse to call me).. anyway, i asked her about that situation that last week.. she told me she waited, but recieved a call and had to go... i then asked her why she didnt call back; she told me she didnt get the msg.. (my a$$)
anyway, she told me to call her when i go back to school to reregister so we can "chill" afterward... is this girl caving in, or what? how should i approach this
 

xiola

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you should get a gun and fvcking kill yourself, that or join a monestary


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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