"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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should i trash the digits?

Chilli_pimp

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here's this situation...
i met a chick in class.. she's a bit older than me, well established (as in, living on her own, owns her own car, etc; with the help of her parents of course) we've been talkin and flirtin throughout the whole semester... neway, ima get to the point:
a week b4 exams, i called her up and had a short and sweet convo, and ended it by asking her if she wanted to chill right after we took our exam... she agreed, and it was on... just to add on, we only have this class once a week, so we never see each other throughout the week..
anyway, i came a lil late to my exams so i had to sit at an open corner of the room... an hour through, she finished, handed her test in, and left the room... i assumed that she was probably waitin for me outside, so i hurried to finish mine. i finished a half hour after her, and when i looked around outside, she was gone... i tried callin her cell, but she wasn't pickin up... so i left a brief voicemail, "hey its 'chillipimp', what happened to you? call me back"
its been 2, almost 3 days... i was thinkin, why should i waste my time tryna get an answer from her... but still, should i try one last time... or should i scrap her number, cuz i left her msg, and she should be gettin back at me...
or am i thinkin too much and find some new meat...
 

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Wiesman44

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Yah, next her. She would have returned your voice message. She obviously got it.
 

Chilli_pimp

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UPDATE...

so its been a week... 2 nite while i was at work, i got a private number on my cell.. it was her... she was acting like everything was cool, asking me if i already registered for my next sem courses... (i saw this as an excuse to call me).. anyway, i asked her about that situation that last week.. she told me she waited, but recieved a call and had to go... i then asked her why she didnt call back; she told me she didnt get the msg.. (my a$$)
anyway, she told me to call her when i go back to school to reregister so we can "chill" afterward... is this girl caving in, or what? how should i approach this
 

xiola

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you should get a gun and fvcking kill yourself, that or join a monestary


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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