"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I tell the girl that friend-zoned me about other girls?

orange_juice29

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Hi guys,

this is my very first post here in this forum. Basically, I think I have been friend-zoned by a girl. Currently, this girl is in Russia. She was an exchange student in my school. We only keep very minimum contact through facebook and skype.

Anyway, I met another Russian girl here in the States. We went out but I don't think I will see her again because I'm not feeling it. So my question is, should I tell this girl in Russia about me going out with another Russian girl?

What do you think?:nervous:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CantTouchMyStyle

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The girl is in Russia and you're in the United States?

Dude, you're never going to see this girl again.. Move on. Out of sight = out of mind.

I don't think she will care / it will make a bit of difference. Lets assume she does get jealous / misses you - do you think she is going to hop on the next plane over? Come on man.
 

orange_juice29

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Thanks man.

I am trying to forget her but it's hard :( . I have a plan to maybe visit her in the future.
 

Eph

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yeah, you should move on. Exchange students RARELY care about having relationships in other countries especially in the US because relationship wise we do things so much differently. She came to learn, thats it.
 

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Your princess is in another castle.

Move on. She did. Get her out of your mind.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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therussian

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haha damn. screw the russian broads. i AM russian and i can't stand them. get yourself a nice mixed brunette chick with olive skin and fuggedaboutit.
 

orange_juice29

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Let's change the situation here.

Let's say that I have a girl in the United States that has been friend-zoned me. Should I tell her about other girls that I went out with?

Thanks
 
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