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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Should I tell the girl that friend-zoned me about other girls?

orange_juice29

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Hi guys,

this is my very first post here in this forum. Basically, I think I have been friend-zoned by a girl. Currently, this girl is in Russia. She was an exchange student in my school. We only keep very minimum contact through facebook and skype.

Anyway, I met another Russian girl here in the States. We went out but I don't think I will see her again because I'm not feeling it. So my question is, should I tell this girl in Russia about me going out with another Russian girl?

What do you think?:nervous:
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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CantTouchMyStyle

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The girl is in Russia and you're in the United States?

Dude, you're never going to see this girl again.. Move on. Out of sight = out of mind.

I don't think she will care / it will make a bit of difference. Lets assume she does get jealous / misses you - do you think she is going to hop on the next plane over? Come on man.
 

orange_juice29

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Thanks man.

I am trying to forget her but it's hard :( . I have a plan to maybe visit her in the future.
 

Eph

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yeah, you should move on. Exchange students RARELY care about having relationships in other countries especially in the US because relationship wise we do things so much differently. She came to learn, thats it.
 

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Your princess is in another castle.

Move on. She did. Get her out of your mind.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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therussian

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haha damn. screw the russian broads. i AM russian and i can't stand them. get yourself a nice mixed brunette chick with olive skin and fuggedaboutit.
 

orange_juice29

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Let's change the situation here.

Let's say that I have a girl in the United States that has been friend-zoned me. Should I tell her about other girls that I went out with?

Thanks
 
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