"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I tell the girl that friend-zoned me about other girls?

orange_juice29

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Hi guys,

this is my very first post here in this forum. Basically, I think I have been friend-zoned by a girl. Currently, this girl is in Russia. She was an exchange student in my school. We only keep very minimum contact through facebook and skype.

Anyway, I met another Russian girl here in the States. We went out but I don't think I will see her again because I'm not feeling it. So my question is, should I tell this girl in Russia about me going out with another Russian girl?

What do you think?:nervous:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CantTouchMyStyle

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The girl is in Russia and you're in the United States?

Dude, you're never going to see this girl again.. Move on. Out of sight = out of mind.

I don't think she will care / it will make a bit of difference. Lets assume she does get jealous / misses you - do you think she is going to hop on the next plane over? Come on man.
 

orange_juice29

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Thanks man.

I am trying to forget her but it's hard :( . I have a plan to maybe visit her in the future.
 

Eph

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yeah, you should move on. Exchange students RARELY care about having relationships in other countries especially in the US because relationship wise we do things so much differently. She came to learn, thats it.
 

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Your princess is in another castle.

Move on. She did. Get her out of your mind.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

therussian

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haha damn. screw the russian broads. i AM russian and i can't stand them. get yourself a nice mixed brunette chick with olive skin and fuggedaboutit.
 

orange_juice29

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Let's change the situation here.

Let's say that I have a girl in the United States that has been friend-zoned me. Should I tell her about other girls that I went out with?

Thanks
 
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