"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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should i sarge with glasses or contacts. pics included.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well I'm no pro, pre boot camp. From a logical stand point, the one that looks more confident is better. I'm no girl either, I don't know which pic looks more confident for them. For me though, without glasses looks better. Hmmm, again I'm not sure here, but isn't ear ring in left ear is gay, or is it the right ear? I heard on one side it says you're gay, and on the other it says you crossed the equatorial waters.
 
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ArcBound

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I dont know what clothing you wear cause your not wearing a shirt, but I think without glasses looks better on you.
 
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Whichever one helps you see better so you don't walk into things.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I started wearing eyeglasses at age 13, got dentures at age 21, never noticed that either one slowed me down a bit with the ladies. The kind you want won't really even notice such little things about you. What they will notice is whether or not you are kind to the "little people" that you meet, waitresses, servers, bartenders, doormen, etc, along with whether or not you show competence at basic things, like driving, self-defense, making money, keeping yourself presentable, and so on.
 
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Try it for yourself

Try both. I wear glasses on workdays, and I regularly switch to wearing contacts in my spare time. Let it be said: personality trumps all. However, my real-life experience is that when I wear glasses it slows down my game A LOT.

I have had two girls rejecting me while wearing glasses, who hooked up with me after meeting me without it at a party/event a couple months later. It's like they didn't remember me wearing glasses on our first encounter. In fact, one of them forgot that first encounter altogether.:confused:
 
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I wear glasses sometimes and you know I have had women compliment my glasses. I dont know why but they just did. Which to me was suprising. So whether is contacts or glasses, just use what feels best for you.
 
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