"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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should i sarge with glasses or contacts. pics included.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Drdeee

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Well I'm no pro, pre boot camp. From a logical stand point, the one that looks more confident is better. I'm no girl either, I don't know which pic looks more confident for them. For me though, without glasses looks better. Hmmm, again I'm not sure here, but isn't ear ring in left ear is gay, or is it the right ear? I heard on one side it says you're gay, and on the other it says you crossed the equatorial waters.
 

ArcBound

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I dont know what clothing you wear cause your not wearing a shirt, but I think without glasses looks better on you.
 

Alle_Gory

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Whichever one helps you see better so you don't walk into things.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lateluvr

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I started wearing eyeglasses at age 13, got dentures at age 21, never noticed that either one slowed me down a bit with the ladies. The kind you want won't really even notice such little things about you. What they will notice is whether or not you are kind to the "little people" that you meet, waitresses, servers, bartenders, doormen, etc, along with whether or not you show competence at basic things, like driving, self-defense, making money, keeping yourself presentable, and so on.
 

HoneyHitter

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Try it for yourself

Try both. I wear glasses on workdays, and I regularly switch to wearing contacts in my spare time. Let it be said: personality trumps all. However, my real-life experience is that when I wear glasses it slows down my game A LOT.

I have had two girls rejecting me while wearing glasses, who hooked up with me after meeting me without it at a party/event a couple months later. It's like they didn't remember me wearing glasses on our first encounter. In fact, one of them forgot that first encounter altogether.:confused:
 

GameTime76

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I wear glasses sometimes and you know I have had women compliment my glasses. I dont know why but they just did. Which to me was suprising. So whether is contacts or glasses, just use what feels best for you.
 
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