"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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should i sarge with glasses or contacts. pics included.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Drdeee

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Well I'm no pro, pre boot camp. From a logical stand point, the one that looks more confident is better. I'm no girl either, I don't know which pic looks more confident for them. For me though, without glasses looks better. Hmmm, again I'm not sure here, but isn't ear ring in left ear is gay, or is it the right ear? I heard on one side it says you're gay, and on the other it says you crossed the equatorial waters.
 

ArcBound

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I dont know what clothing you wear cause your not wearing a shirt, but I think without glasses looks better on you.
 

Alle_Gory

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Whichever one helps you see better so you don't walk into things.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I started wearing eyeglasses at age 13, got dentures at age 21, never noticed that either one slowed me down a bit with the ladies. The kind you want won't really even notice such little things about you. What they will notice is whether or not you are kind to the "little people" that you meet, waitresses, servers, bartenders, doormen, etc, along with whether or not you show competence at basic things, like driving, self-defense, making money, keeping yourself presentable, and so on.
 

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Try it for yourself

Try both. I wear glasses on workdays, and I regularly switch to wearing contacts in my spare time. Let it be said: personality trumps all. However, my real-life experience is that when I wear glasses it slows down my game A LOT.

I have had two girls rejecting me while wearing glasses, who hooked up with me after meeting me without it at a party/event a couple months later. It's like they didn't remember me wearing glasses on our first encounter. In fact, one of them forgot that first encounter altogether.:confused:
 

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I wear glasses sometimes and you know I have had women compliment my glasses. I dont know why but they just did. Which to me was suprising. So whether is contacts or glasses, just use what feels best for you.
 
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