"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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should i sarge with glasses or contacts. pics included.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Drdeee

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Well I'm no pro, pre boot camp. From a logical stand point, the one that looks more confident is better. I'm no girl either, I don't know which pic looks more confident for them. For me though, without glasses looks better. Hmmm, again I'm not sure here, but isn't ear ring in left ear is gay, or is it the right ear? I heard on one side it says you're gay, and on the other it says you crossed the equatorial waters.
 

ArcBound

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I dont know what clothing you wear cause your not wearing a shirt, but I think without glasses looks better on you.
 

Alle_Gory

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Whichever one helps you see better so you don't walk into things.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lateluvr

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I started wearing eyeglasses at age 13, got dentures at age 21, never noticed that either one slowed me down a bit with the ladies. The kind you want won't really even notice such little things about you. What they will notice is whether or not you are kind to the "little people" that you meet, waitresses, servers, bartenders, doormen, etc, along with whether or not you show competence at basic things, like driving, self-defense, making money, keeping yourself presentable, and so on.
 

HoneyHitter

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Try it for yourself

Try both. I wear glasses on workdays, and I regularly switch to wearing contacts in my spare time. Let it be said: personality trumps all. However, my real-life experience is that when I wear glasses it slows down my game A LOT.

I have had two girls rejecting me while wearing glasses, who hooked up with me after meeting me without it at a party/event a couple months later. It's like they didn't remember me wearing glasses on our first encounter. In fact, one of them forgot that first encounter altogether.:confused:
 

GameTime76

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I wear glasses sometimes and you know I have had women compliment my glasses. I dont know why but they just did. Which to me was suprising. So whether is contacts or glasses, just use what feels best for you.
 
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