Reyaj
Master Don Juan
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
^This. You're letting your emotions control you. Sit back, take a deep breath, and look at this more objectively. You and him don't get along. Dump him. Hitting him will solve nothing and create more problems.Colossus said:No need to punch him at this point but definitely remove him from your life.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
FLGuy said:Unless he was running his mouth in front of your girl or saying stuff to other people and it made u look like a pansy, if your the Alpha Male you don't need to defend your or your girl's honor, remember most women dont have any honor nor are they deserving of your chivalry . Recognize he is the lesser man, have some empathy as the better man and either cut him out of your life or get out of the kitchen if the heat is too hot for you. And honestly his comment about your girl must of touched a nerve, mb a bit of truth in his comment? And that's what your really mad about? If you had Jessica Alba on your arm and he made the same comment, it would roll right off our back, right? Cause his opinion wouldnt matter at all, since he would be insane?
Warrior74 said:So....is your girlfriend a pig or what? Obviously you got butthurt. You know what they say about hit dogs and howling. Well?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
obviously she is. If she wasn't you would have said, no dude, she's hot. As for me, I don't believe in marriage, never have. But I'm glad you took the time to stay butthurt enough to research me. So much fail.Reyaj said:This coming from someone who got someone knocked and didn't marry her? She must have a been a pig lol so good call![]()
Yeah dude , I sure took a long time to research you lolWarrior74 said:obviously she is. If she wasn't you would have said, no dude, she's hot. As for me, I don't believe in marriage, never have. But I'm glad you took the time to stay butthurt enough to research me. So much fail.
Boilermaker said:^
I Can't believe you are 33. You come here crying because somebody insulted your girlfriend and then you go berserk on people who point out the truth.
Did you say you were going to punch him? Haha, yeah, such a vulnerable and sensitive person like you?
Real men don't care about hollow remarks from insignificant people, you could never punch him. You would pis.s your pants out of fear.
And you came here for the attention. You are a woman in a man's body, dude, sorry. Even your signature asks for charity.
Reyaj said:Yeah dude , I sure took a long time to research you lol
I wouldn't believe in marriage either if I knocked up some slvut like you did. You are a real role model lol
Wow, your butt hurts so bad you would think it was your first time. Remember, on the internet you don't know my tone, or my intent, you add all of that. And from what I can tell you are the type of person who sees things as attacks on your person. You have a fragile ego. You feel weak. And you feel you have to "destroy" those who make you feel this way. You got work to do son. You are easy to manipulate. I could have kept goading you for days, hell I threw few goads in this post just to see if you are paying attention or not. Good luck.I ask for objective advice about what to do in a personal situation and I get responses trying to insult my girlfriend's looks??? Of course whom none of you have even seen? Of course that wasn't what my thread was even about... The irony of this is that this is supposed to be the mature forum... of course I am the bad guy because I am insulting back those who visit this forum everyday and have major "rep" points
lol... The next time I'll probably read your puerile responses will be in a week when I check this site again. That's called having a life
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.