Reyaj
Master Don Juan
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
^This. You're letting your emotions control you. Sit back, take a deep breath, and look at this more objectively. You and him don't get along. Dump him. Hitting him will solve nothing and create more problems.Colossus said:No need to punch him at this point but definitely remove him from your life.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
FLGuy said:Unless he was running his mouth in front of your girl or saying stuff to other people and it made u look like a pansy, if your the Alpha Male you don't need to defend your or your girl's honor, remember most women dont have any honor nor are they deserving of your chivalry . Recognize he is the lesser man, have some empathy as the better man and either cut him out of your life or get out of the kitchen if the heat is too hot for you. And honestly his comment about your girl must of touched a nerve, mb a bit of truth in his comment? And that's what your really mad about? If you had Jessica Alba on your arm and he made the same comment, it would roll right off our back, right? Cause his opinion wouldnt matter at all, since he would be insane?
Warrior74 said:So....is your girlfriend a pig or what? Obviously you got butthurt. You know what they say about hit dogs and howling. Well?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
obviously she is. If she wasn't you would have said, no dude, she's hot. As for me, I don't believe in marriage, never have. But I'm glad you took the time to stay butthurt enough to research me. So much fail.Reyaj said:This coming from someone who got someone knocked and didn't marry her? She must have a been a pig lol so good call![]()
Yeah dude , I sure took a long time to research you lolWarrior74 said:obviously she is. If she wasn't you would have said, no dude, she's hot. As for me, I don't believe in marriage, never have. But I'm glad you took the time to stay butthurt enough to research me. So much fail.
Boilermaker said:^
I Can't believe you are 33. You come here crying because somebody insulted your girlfriend and then you go berserk on people who point out the truth.
Did you say you were going to punch him? Haha, yeah, such a vulnerable and sensitive person like you?
Real men don't care about hollow remarks from insignificant people, you could never punch him. You would pis.s your pants out of fear.
And you came here for the attention. You are a woman in a man's body, dude, sorry. Even your signature asks for charity.
Reyaj said:Yeah dude , I sure took a long time to research you lol
I wouldn't believe in marriage either if I knocked up some slvut like you did. You are a real role model lol
Wow, your butt hurts so bad you would think it was your first time. Remember, on the internet you don't know my tone, or my intent, you add all of that. And from what I can tell you are the type of person who sees things as attacks on your person. You have a fragile ego. You feel weak. And you feel you have to "destroy" those who make you feel this way. You got work to do son. You are easy to manipulate. I could have kept goading you for days, hell I threw few goads in this post just to see if you are paying attention or not. Good luck.I ask for objective advice about what to do in a personal situation and I get responses trying to insult my girlfriend's looks??? Of course whom none of you have even seen? Of course that wasn't what my thread was even about... The irony of this is that this is supposed to be the mature forum... of course I am the bad guy because I am insulting back those who visit this forum everyday and have major "rep" points
lol... The next time I'll probably read your puerile responses will be in a week when I check this site again. That's called having a life
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.