Reyaj
Master Don Juan
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
^This. You're letting your emotions control you. Sit back, take a deep breath, and look at this more objectively. You and him don't get along. Dump him. Hitting him will solve nothing and create more problems.Colossus said:No need to punch him at this point but definitely remove him from your life.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
FLGuy said:Unless he was running his mouth in front of your girl or saying stuff to other people and it made u look like a pansy, if your the Alpha Male you don't need to defend your or your girl's honor, remember most women dont have any honor nor are they deserving of your chivalry . Recognize he is the lesser man, have some empathy as the better man and either cut him out of your life or get out of the kitchen if the heat is too hot for you. And honestly his comment about your girl must of touched a nerve, mb a bit of truth in his comment? And that's what your really mad about? If you had Jessica Alba on your arm and he made the same comment, it would roll right off our back, right? Cause his opinion wouldnt matter at all, since he would be insane?
Warrior74 said:So....is your girlfriend a pig or what? Obviously you got butthurt. You know what they say about hit dogs and howling. Well?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
obviously she is. If she wasn't you would have said, no dude, she's hot. As for me, I don't believe in marriage, never have. But I'm glad you took the time to stay butthurt enough to research me. So much fail.Reyaj said:This coming from someone who got someone knocked and didn't marry her? She must have a been a pig lol so good call![]()
Yeah dude , I sure took a long time to research you lolWarrior74 said:obviously she is. If she wasn't you would have said, no dude, she's hot. As for me, I don't believe in marriage, never have. But I'm glad you took the time to stay butthurt enough to research me. So much fail.
Boilermaker said:^
I Can't believe you are 33. You come here crying because somebody insulted your girlfriend and then you go berserk on people who point out the truth.
Did you say you were going to punch him? Haha, yeah, such a vulnerable and sensitive person like you?
Real men don't care about hollow remarks from insignificant people, you could never punch him. You would pis.s your pants out of fear.
And you came here for the attention. You are a woman in a man's body, dude, sorry. Even your signature asks for charity.
Reyaj said:Yeah dude , I sure took a long time to research you lol
I wouldn't believe in marriage either if I knocked up some slvut like you did. You are a real role model lol
Wow, your butt hurts so bad you would think it was your first time. Remember, on the internet you don't know my tone, or my intent, you add all of that. And from what I can tell you are the type of person who sees things as attacks on your person. You have a fragile ego. You feel weak. And you feel you have to "destroy" those who make you feel this way. You got work to do son. You are easy to manipulate. I could have kept goading you for days, hell I threw few goads in this post just to see if you are paying attention or not. Good luck.I ask for objective advice about what to do in a personal situation and I get responses trying to insult my girlfriend's looks??? Of course whom none of you have even seen? Of course that wasn't what my thread was even about... The irony of this is that this is supposed to be the mature forum... of course I am the bad guy because I am insulting back those who visit this forum everyday and have major "rep" points
lol... The next time I'll probably read your puerile responses will be in a week when I check this site again. That's called having a life
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.