Reyaj
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Should I punch him? What does a real man do?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No you should not, you should stop let your emotions take over and think with your brain, what you say actually is more a kid thing than a man one.
At first I tought someone was trying to humiliate you or stealing you something then I read after the title and realized how senseless is what you're saying.
So let me guess what happened was something like that:
you: hey bob lets to to ny marathon in few months
him: ok billy let's go.--->
you: you ready for the marathon bob?
him: no I dont wanna do it anymore, I would rather play warcraft
you: your ass is so big that it should be a county with his own sheriff
him: your girlfriend smells and sucks and I would rather die alone---->
him: hey billy how is going, wanna go have a beer toghter?
you: (silence)
you: (ARRR I will punch him to save my honor)
Is that anything similar? Do you realize that maybe through texting he got that you were making playful insults and dont even realized you build up a wwe feud after 2 texts?
At first I tought someone was trying to humiliate you or stealing you something then I read after the title and realized how senseless is what you're saying.
So let me guess what happened was something like that:
you: hey bob lets to to ny marathon in few months
him: ok billy let's go.--->
you: you ready for the marathon bob?
him: no I dont wanna do it anymore, I would rather play warcraft
you: your ass is so big that it should be a county with his own sheriff
him: your girlfriend smells and sucks and I would rather die alone---->
him: hey billy how is going, wanna go have a beer toghter?
you: (silence)
you: (ARRR I will punch him to save my honor)
Is that anything similar? Do you realize that maybe through texting he got that you were making playful insults and dont even realized you build up a wwe feud after 2 texts?
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
You are a loser. You can dish it out but can't take it, eh? Pathetic, pal.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
I took care of it 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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^This. You're letting your emotions control you. Sit back, take a deep breath, and look at this more objectively. You and him don't get along. Dump him. Hitting him will solve nothing and create more problems.Colossus said:
You have nothing to prove to this guy.
Unless he was running his mouth in front of your girl or saying stuff to other people and it made u look like a pansy, if your the Alpha Male you don't need to defend your or your girl's honor, remember most women dont have any honor nor are they deserving of your chivalry . Recognize he is the lesser man, have some empathy as the better man and either cut him out of your life or get out of the kitchen if the heat is too hot for you. And honestly his comment about your girl must of touched a nerve, mb a bit of truth in his comment? And that's what your really mad about? If you had Jessica Alba on your arm and he made the same comment, it would roll right off our back, right? Cause his opinion wouldnt matter at all, since he would be insane?
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
1. why is this POS your friend in the first place
2. lol, YOU STARTED IT. you are just as bad as he is.
both of you need to grow up
2. lol, YOU STARTED IT. you are just as bad as he is.
both of you need to grow up
your loser pathetic friend as you describe him, OWNS YOU!
that's right. you let whatever comes from his mouth run your life and your emotions. you been in this site for how long? and you are how old?
I'm giving you tough love now, are you feeling insulted? are you gonna punch me in the face? or do I need to be as sad and pathetic as your friend first?
that's right. you let whatever comes from his mouth run your life and your emotions. you been in this site for how long? and you are how old?
I'm giving you tough love now, are you feeling insulted? are you gonna punch me in the face? or do I need to be as sad and pathetic as your friend first?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
FLGuy said:
I'm not bothered by what he said especially cause his track record with women is sad.. which I even told him. The point is he referred to my girlfriend in a sexual disrespectful manner.... To me its more about human disrespect than the insult itself.... it bothers me that he can say something vulgar like that about someone I care about. If letting it go makes more of a man than hitting him, then thats the road I will take.
For those who have responded maturely to me, thank you.
I punch only in the moment. I don't sit and think about it!
You're 33, why are you asking other people if you should punch someone else? People will ALWAYS tell you you shouldn't and that's the right answer from someone else. At this point in your life you should know when and when not to punch somebody.
You're 33, why are you asking other people if you should punch someone else? People will ALWAYS tell you you shouldn't and that's the right answer from someone else. At this point in your life you should know when and when not to punch somebody.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Warrior74 said:
This coming from someone who got someone knocked and didn't marry her? She must have a been a pig lol so good call
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I Can't believe you are 33. You come here crying because somebody insulted your girlfriend and then you go berserk on people who point out the truth.
Did you say you were going to punch him? Haha, yeah, such a vulnerable and sensitive person like you?
Real men don't care about hollow remarks from insignificant people, you could never punch him. You would pis.s your pants out of fear.
And you came here for the attention. You are a woman in a man's body, dude, sorry. Even your signature asks for charity.
I Can't believe you are 33. You come here crying because somebody insulted your girlfriend and then you go berserk on people who point out the truth.
Did you say you were going to punch him? Haha, yeah, such a vulnerable and sensitive person like you?
Real men don't care about hollow remarks from insignificant people, you could never punch him. You would pis.s your pants out of fear.
And you came here for the attention. You are a woman in a man's body, dude, sorry. Even your signature asks for charity.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
obviously she is. If she wasn't you would have said, no dude, she's hot. As for me, I don't believe in marriage, never have. But I'm glad you took the time to stay butthurt enough to research me. So much fail.Reyaj said:This coming from someone who got someone knocked and didn't marry her? She must have a been a pig lol so good call
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Yeah dude , I sure took a long time to research you lolWarrior74 said:
I wouldn't believe in marriage either if I knocked up some slvut like you did. You are a real role model lol
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Boilermaker said:
wow... I will proceed to kill myself now lol... Keep posting 24/7 dip****
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
I ask for objective advice about what to do in a personal situation and I get responses trying to insult my girlfriend's looks??? Of course whom none of you have even seen? Of course that wasn't what my thread was even about... The irony of this is that this is supposed to be the mature forum... of course I am the bad guy because I am insulting back those who visit this forum everyday and have major "rep" points
lol... The next time I'll probably read your puerile responses will be in a week when I check this site again. That's called having a life
lol... The next time I'll probably read your puerile responses will be in a week when I check this site again. That's called having a life
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And....this proves the point. You can dish it out, but you can't take it. Toughen up buttercup. All I did was ask if he was right. What was your response? Nuke the site from orbit. You got a fragile ego thing going on here. I didn't insult your girl, I just asked a question and you internet flip out. THen I troll you a little bit and you flip out some more. Do you not see that as your major problem? You are sensitive like woman. You will probably take that as an insult and flip out some more instead of learning something from it. Then you get in a huff and post this womanly upset crap :
Wow, your butt hurts so bad you would think it was your first time. Remember, on the internet you don't know my tone, or my intent, you add all of that. And from what I can tell you are the type of person who sees things as attacks on your person. You have a fragile ego. You feel weak. And you feel you have to "destroy" those who make you feel this way. You got work to do son. You are easy to manipulate. I could have kept goading you for days, hell I threw few goads in this post just to see if you are paying attention or not. Good luck.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.