So this girl I've been talking to on and off has been giving me mixed signals. Like she knows I like her (because I asked her out last week) but then she gave this excuse that her and a ex had a bad time, and then I asked for her sc and she said sure she would give it to me. But today I was just standing next to a rail ( this is high school) and she just oddly looked at me and walked passed me. I've decided myself not to talk to her but I'm thinking maybe I'm irrational. When we talk she usually laughs at my jokes, but I know jokes don't mean ****. What should I do?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Should I presue this girl?
- Thread starter Doonoo
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When she gives excuse then she is not interested, just ask yourself would you give excuse to someone you want to go out with and she ignored you which is obviosly disrespect.. forget about her, since you have no history it should be easy..
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She is clearly not interested.
Start acting distant a bit, start hitting on other girls instead and see how she reacts but don't waste your time and effort any more on her if you've already 1. pitched a date and 2. got her sc and now she's playing games
Start acting distant a bit, start hitting on other girls instead and see how she reacts but don't waste your time and effort any more on her if you've already 1. pitched a date and 2. got her sc and now she's playing games
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Nothing. Go live your life. Meet new girls. Lots of them. Date have fun. You're in highschool. Take nothing serious from a girl under 25. Do not commit to them. Do not get attached to them.
Highschool girls brains haven't finished developing yet. They aren't mature enough. They will change their mind from one day to the next about what they like and what they don't.
Do not get caught up in the mental disaster that is a girl under 25. They aren't capable of having a real relationship.
Date. Have fun. But give zero f_cks.