So this girl I've been talking to on and off has been giving me mixed signals. Like she knows I like her (because I asked her out last week) but then she gave this excuse that her and a ex had a bad time, and then I asked for her sc and she said sure she would give it to me. But today I was just standing next to a rail ( this is high school) and she just oddly looked at me and walked passed me. I've decided myself not to talk to her but I'm thinking maybe I'm irrational. When we talk she usually laughs at my jokes, but I know jokes don't mean ****. What should I do?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Should I presue this girl?
- Thread starter Doonoo
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When she gives excuse then she is not interested, just ask yourself would you give excuse to someone you want to go out with and she ignored you which is obviosly disrespect.. forget about her, since you have no history it should be easy..
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She is clearly not interested.
Start acting distant a bit, start hitting on other girls instead and see how she reacts but don't waste your time and effort any more on her if you've already 1. pitched a date and 2. got her sc and now she's playing games
Start acting distant a bit, start hitting on other girls instead and see how she reacts but don't waste your time and effort any more on her if you've already 1. pitched a date and 2. got her sc and now she's playing games
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nothing. Go live your life. Meet new girls. Lots of them. Date have fun. You're in highschool. Take nothing serious from a girl under 25. Do not commit to them. Do not get attached to them.
Highschool girls brains haven't finished developing yet. They aren't mature enough. They will change their mind from one day to the next about what they like and what they don't.
Do not get caught up in the mental disaster that is a girl under 25. They aren't capable of having a real relationship.
Date. Have fun. But give zero f_cks.