So this girl I've been talking to on and off has been giving me mixed signals. Like she knows I like her (because I asked her out last week) but then she gave this excuse that her and a ex had a bad time, and then I asked for her sc and she said sure she would give it to me. But today I was just standing next to a rail ( this is high school) and she just oddly looked at me and walked passed me. I've decided myself not to talk to her but I'm thinking maybe I'm irrational. When we talk she usually laughs at my jokes, but I know jokes don't mean ****. What should I do?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Should I presue this girl?
- Thread starter Doonoo
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When she gives excuse then she is not interested, just ask yourself would you give excuse to someone you want to go out with and she ignored you which is obviosly disrespect.. forget about her, since you have no history it should be easy..
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She is clearly not interested.
Start acting distant a bit, start hitting on other girls instead and see how she reacts but don't waste your time and effort any more on her if you've already 1. pitched a date and 2. got her sc and now she's playing games
Start acting distant a bit, start hitting on other girls instead and see how she reacts but don't waste your time and effort any more on her if you've already 1. pitched a date and 2. got her sc and now she's playing games
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nothing. Go live your life. Meet new girls. Lots of them. Date have fun. You're in highschool. Take nothing serious from a girl under 25. Do not commit to them. Do not get attached to them.
Highschool girls brains haven't finished developing yet. They aren't mature enough. They will change their mind from one day to the next about what they like and what they don't.
Do not get caught up in the mental disaster that is a girl under 25. They aren't capable of having a real relationship.
Date. Have fun. But give zero f_cks.