johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Hey guys do you think its safe for a guy to practice your approaches on large chicks? You so you wont be shy when you do it on the sexy ones? What do you think?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Should i practice my approaches on large chicks?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
I'm a female and you can practice your approaches on me, I'm not that hot.
Meg
Meg
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
no
this will not helo you gain confidence..except make u feel like a bigger loser when u take one home
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
What do you mean?
hungry_american
Don Juan
Also put me down for a hell no, that would make me lose all confidence and feel like a moron. Although being just FRIENDS and not flirting with those type of girls sometimes gets you to their hot friends or makes you look nice, or gay. I have no idea. but hell no.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
lol :crackup: What wrong if you practice on them.
GuitarPlayer
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So Meg, think back to a time in your life when you were really turned on. Remember how that made you feel? Wouldn't it be really great to recapture that feeling with another guy?
(slyly points to self)
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Iam just saying this because there are some guys that are scare of talking to the pretty ones.:crackup:
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
That's not a bad idea, but macking on fat girls isn't requiring as much effort as it is for hot girls. A conversation w/ a fat chick isn't the same as one w/ a hot girl.
It's like you want to make the high school J.V. football team, but you're practicing w/ a junior high team. Your confidence can go up though.
It's like you want to make the high school J.V. football team, but you're practicing w/ a junior high team. Your confidence can go up though.
Don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out.
You'll either come off as an @$$hole if she thinks that you're truly interested in her, or you'll INEVITABLY be flirting with one of Marge Simpson's sisters when some hottie walks in. Said hottie will equate going out with you to admitting that she's as ugly as the hog you're busting a move on, and you will blow any slim chance you had of tapping some very fine @ss that night.
Just do yourself a favor and never flirt with a girl you're not willing to bang with the lights on and someone watching through the window. Trust me on this.
You'll either come off as an @$$hole if she thinks that you're truly interested in her, or you'll INEVITABLY be flirting with one of Marge Simpson's sisters when some hottie walks in. Said hottie will equate going out with you to admitting that she's as ugly as the hog you're busting a move on, and you will blow any slim chance you had of tapping some very fine @ss that night.
Just do yourself a favor and never flirt with a girl you're not willing to bang with the lights on and someone watching through the window. Trust me on this.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Oh you think so? Or maybe cause they will think someone does like them lol :crackup:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"So Meg, think back to a time in your life when you were really turned on. Remember how that made you feel? Wouldn't it be really great to recapture that feeling with another guy?"
It would be really nice to get plowed too since I haven't gotten it in approximately 3 months (I'm picky).
It would be really nice to get plowed too since I haven't gotten it in approximately 3 months (I'm picky).
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"What do you mean?"
Johnny, I actually have no idea how we can do this but perhaps we could cyber roll play lol.
Johnny, I actually have no idea how we can do this but perhaps we could cyber roll play lol.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
^Why don't you practice receiving blow jobs from them first.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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Which is exactly why that's who they need to talk to. You get confidence by confronting your fears. If you have no fear of approaching large girls, and that are not you're type, practicing on them will do no good when it comes to approaching the shb's.
The only way to confront your fear is by doing what you are afraid of. Therefore, in order to get over the fear of approaching a hb or an shb, you must approach a sb, or a shb until you see that there is, in fact, NOTHING to fear.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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