johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Hey guys do you think its safe for a guy to practice your approaches on large chicks? You so you wont be shy when you do it on the sexy ones? What do you think?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Should i practice my approaches on large chicks?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
I'm a female and you can practice your approaches on me, I'm not that hot.
Meg
Meg
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
no
this will not helo you gain confidence..except make u feel like a bigger loser when u take one home
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
What do you mean?
hungry_american
Don Juan
Also put me down for a hell no, that would make me lose all confidence and feel like a moron. Although being just FRIENDS and not flirting with those type of girls sometimes gets you to their hot friends or makes you look nice, or gay. I have no idea. but hell no.
johnnyhero79
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lol :crackup: What wrong if you practice on them.
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So Meg, think back to a time in your life when you were really turned on. Remember how that made you feel? Wouldn't it be really great to recapture that feeling with another guy?
(slyly points to self)
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Iam just saying this because there are some guys that are scare of talking to the pretty ones.:crackup:
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
That's not a bad idea, but macking on fat girls isn't requiring as much effort as it is for hot girls. A conversation w/ a fat chick isn't the same as one w/ a hot girl.
It's like you want to make the high school J.V. football team, but you're practicing w/ a junior high team. Your confidence can go up though.
It's like you want to make the high school J.V. football team, but you're practicing w/ a junior high team. Your confidence can go up though.
Don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out.
You'll either come off as an @$$hole if she thinks that you're truly interested in her, or you'll INEVITABLY be flirting with one of Marge Simpson's sisters when some hottie walks in. Said hottie will equate going out with you to admitting that she's as ugly as the hog you're busting a move on, and you will blow any slim chance you had of tapping some very fine @ss that night.
Just do yourself a favor and never flirt with a girl you're not willing to bang with the lights on and someone watching through the window. Trust me on this.
You'll either come off as an @$$hole if she thinks that you're truly interested in her, or you'll INEVITABLY be flirting with one of Marge Simpson's sisters when some hottie walks in. Said hottie will equate going out with you to admitting that she's as ugly as the hog you're busting a move on, and you will blow any slim chance you had of tapping some very fine @ss that night.
Just do yourself a favor and never flirt with a girl you're not willing to bang with the lights on and someone watching through the window. Trust me on this.
johnnyhero79
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Oh you think so? Or maybe cause they will think someone does like them lol :crackup:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"So Meg, think back to a time in your life when you were really turned on. Remember how that made you feel? Wouldn't it be really great to recapture that feeling with another guy?"
It would be really nice to get plowed too since I haven't gotten it in approximately 3 months (I'm picky).
It would be really nice to get plowed too since I haven't gotten it in approximately 3 months (I'm picky).
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"What do you mean?"
Johnny, I actually have no idea how we can do this but perhaps we could cyber roll play lol.
Johnny, I actually have no idea how we can do this but perhaps we could cyber roll play lol.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
^Why don't you practice receiving blow jobs from them first.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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Which is exactly why that's who they need to talk to. You get confidence by confronting your fears. If you have no fear of approaching large girls, and that are not you're type, practicing on them will do no good when it comes to approaching the shb's.
The only way to confront your fear is by doing what you are afraid of. Therefore, in order to get over the fear of approaching a hb or an shb, you must approach a sb, or a shb until you see that there is, in fact, NOTHING to fear.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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