johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Hey guys do you think its safe for a guy to practice your approaches on large chicks? You so you wont be shy when you do it on the sexy ones? What do you think?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Should i practice my approaches on large chicks?
- Thread starter johnnyhero79
- Start date
- Status
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
I'm a female and you can practice your approaches on me, I'm not that hot.
Meg
Meg
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
no
this will not helo you gain confidence..except make u feel like a bigger loser when u take one home
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
What do you mean?
hungry_american
Don Juan
Also put me down for a hell no, that would make me lose all confidence and feel like a moron. Although being just FRIENDS and not flirting with those type of girls sometimes gets you to their hot friends or makes you look nice, or gay. I have no idea. but hell no.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
lol :crackup: What wrong if you practice on them.
GuitarPlayer
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 4, 2005
- Messages
- 119
- Reaction score
- 0
So Meg, think back to a time in your life when you were really turned on. Remember how that made you feel? Wouldn't it be really great to recapture that feeling with another guy?
(slyly points to self)
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Iam just saying this because there are some guys that are scare of talking to the pretty ones.:crackup:
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
That's not a bad idea, but macking on fat girls isn't requiring as much effort as it is for hot girls. A conversation w/ a fat chick isn't the same as one w/ a hot girl.
It's like you want to make the high school J.V. football team, but you're practicing w/ a junior high team. Your confidence can go up though.
It's like you want to make the high school J.V. football team, but you're practicing w/ a junior high team. Your confidence can go up though.
Don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out.
You'll either come off as an @$$hole if she thinks that you're truly interested in her, or you'll INEVITABLY be flirting with one of Marge Simpson's sisters when some hottie walks in. Said hottie will equate going out with you to admitting that she's as ugly as the hog you're busting a move on, and you will blow any slim chance you had of tapping some very fine @ss that night.
Just do yourself a favor and never flirt with a girl you're not willing to bang with the lights on and someone watching through the window. Trust me on this.
You'll either come off as an @$$hole if she thinks that you're truly interested in her, or you'll INEVITABLY be flirting with one of Marge Simpson's sisters when some hottie walks in. Said hottie will equate going out with you to admitting that she's as ugly as the hog you're busting a move on, and you will blow any slim chance you had of tapping some very fine @ss that night.
Just do yourself a favor and never flirt with a girl you're not willing to bang with the lights on and someone watching through the window. Trust me on this.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Oh you think so? Or maybe cause they will think someone does like them lol :crackup:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"So Meg, think back to a time in your life when you were really turned on. Remember how that made you feel? Wouldn't it be really great to recapture that feeling with another guy?"
It would be really nice to get plowed too since I haven't gotten it in approximately 3 months (I'm picky).
It would be really nice to get plowed too since I haven't gotten it in approximately 3 months (I'm picky).
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"What do you mean?"
Johnny, I actually have no idea how we can do this but perhaps we could cyber roll play lol.
Johnny, I actually have no idea how we can do this but perhaps we could cyber roll play lol.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
^Why don't you practice receiving blow jobs from them first.
The Nice Guy is Gone
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 26, 2005
- Messages
- 325
- Reaction score
- 3
Which is exactly why that's who they need to talk to. You get confidence by confronting your fears. If you have no fear of approaching large girls, and that are not you're type, practicing on them will do no good when it comes to approaching the shb's.
The only way to confront your fear is by doing what you are afraid of. Therefore, in order to get over the fear of approaching a hb or an shb, you must approach a sb, or a shb until you see that there is, in fact, NOTHING to fear.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
- Status