johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Hey guys do you think its safe for a guy to practice your approaches on large chicks? You so you wont be shy when you do it on the sexy ones? What do you think?
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Should i practice my approaches on large chicks?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
I'm a female and you can practice your approaches on me, I'm not that hot.
Meg
Meg
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
no
this will not helo you gain confidence..except make u feel like a bigger loser when u take one home
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
What do you mean?
hungry_american
Don Juan
Also put me down for a hell no, that would make me lose all confidence and feel like a moron. Although being just FRIENDS and not flirting with those type of girls sometimes gets you to their hot friends or makes you look nice, or gay. I have no idea. but hell no.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
lol :crackup: What wrong if you practice on them.
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So Meg, think back to a time in your life when you were really turned on. Remember how that made you feel? Wouldn't it be really great to recapture that feeling with another guy?
(slyly points to self)
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johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Iam just saying this because there are some guys that are scare of talking to the pretty ones.:crackup:
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
That's not a bad idea, but macking on fat girls isn't requiring as much effort as it is for hot girls. A conversation w/ a fat chick isn't the same as one w/ a hot girl.
It's like you want to make the high school J.V. football team, but you're practicing w/ a junior high team. Your confidence can go up though.
It's like you want to make the high school J.V. football team, but you're practicing w/ a junior high team. Your confidence can go up though.
Don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out.
You'll either come off as an @$$hole if she thinks that you're truly interested in her, or you'll INEVITABLY be flirting with one of Marge Simpson's sisters when some hottie walks in. Said hottie will equate going out with you to admitting that she's as ugly as the hog you're busting a move on, and you will blow any slim chance you had of tapping some very fine @ss that night.
Just do yourself a favor and never flirt with a girl you're not willing to bang with the lights on and someone watching through the window. Trust me on this.
You'll either come off as an @$$hole if she thinks that you're truly interested in her, or you'll INEVITABLY be flirting with one of Marge Simpson's sisters when some hottie walks in. Said hottie will equate going out with you to admitting that she's as ugly as the hog you're busting a move on, and you will blow any slim chance you had of tapping some very fine @ss that night.
Just do yourself a favor and never flirt with a girl you're not willing to bang with the lights on and someone watching through the window. Trust me on this.
johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Oh you think so? Or maybe cause they will think someone does like them lol :crackup:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"So Meg, think back to a time in your life when you were really turned on. Remember how that made you feel? Wouldn't it be really great to recapture that feeling with another guy?"
It would be really nice to get plowed too since I haven't gotten it in approximately 3 months (I'm picky).
It would be really nice to get plowed too since I haven't gotten it in approximately 3 months (I'm picky).
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"What do you mean?"
Johnny, I actually have no idea how we can do this but perhaps we could cyber roll play lol.
Johnny, I actually have no idea how we can do this but perhaps we could cyber roll play lol.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
^Why don't you practice receiving blow jobs from them first.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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Which is exactly why that's who they need to talk to. You get confidence by confronting your fears. If you have no fear of approaching large girls, and that are not you're type, practicing on them will do no good when it comes to approaching the shb's.
The only way to confront your fear is by doing what you are afraid of. Therefore, in order to get over the fear of approaching a hb or an shb, you must approach a sb, or a shb until you see that there is, in fact, NOTHING to fear.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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