"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I next or am I just being paranoid

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I've ****** met up with this girl on three occasions and closed on her. She was the one hitting me up to hangout. Well, this weekend she didn't ask. I asked her if she was drinking tonight and she said she didn't want to go out out because of storms, but she might go out of town to visit one of her best friend I just said cool lol and haven't texted her all weekend. I'm dropping her if this friend is some Tyrone Ledarius black guy. The bars are outside and she this isn't the first time she didn't want to go out while it was storming. She was also mad at me this week because I made a FWB joke and she felt insulted and I had to make up some bull **** to get out of it. It seemed like she wanted a relationship, so this is kind of a curve ball. I can't lose a pu$$y source because my last time having sex was like in March man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so you want to next her because a couple of times she hasn't been up to meeting with you?

I dont see the problem. She has medium interest in you, it happends. Keep suggesting dates etc and having sex when possible.
 
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pyros said:
so you want to next her because a couple of times she hasn't been up to meeting with you?

I dont see the problem. She has medium interest in you, it happends. Keep suggesting dates etc and having sex when possible.
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What do you do when their birthday is coming up lol.
 
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jeezzz man... it depends.

If its a fwb I get her something very small, some good chocolates, or some silly small thing like a cheap nice bracelet.

If we're talking about something serious, then I get her a normal present: nice scarf, nail poslish, aromatic bath soap, earrings, a cool bracelet...
 
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pyros said:
jeezzz man... it depends.

If its a fwb I get her something very small, some good chocolates, or some silly small thing like a cheap nice bracelet.

If we're talking about something serious, then I get her a normal present: nice scarf, nail poslish, aromatic bath soap, earrings, a cool bracelet...
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I consider her a fwb, but idk what she thinks. Probably going to get **** on.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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