"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I next or am I just being paranoid

Dhoulmagus

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I've ****** met up with this girl on three occasions and closed on her. She was the one hitting me up to hangout. Well, this weekend she didn't ask. I asked her if she was drinking tonight and she said she didn't want to go out out because of storms, but she might go out of town to visit one of her best friend I just said cool lol and haven't texted her all weekend. I'm dropping her if this friend is some Tyrone Ledarius black guy. The bars are outside and she this isn't the first time she didn't want to go out while it was storming. She was also mad at me this week because I made a FWB joke and she felt insulted and I had to make up some bull **** to get out of it. It seemed like she wanted a relationship, so this is kind of a curve ball. I can't lose a pu$$y source because my last time having sex was like in March man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pyros

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so you want to next her because a couple of times she hasn't been up to meeting with you?

I dont see the problem. She has medium interest in you, it happends. Keep suggesting dates etc and having sex when possible.
 

Dhoulmagus

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pyros said:
so you want to next her because a couple of times she hasn't been up to meeting with you?

I dont see the problem. She has medium interest in you, it happends. Keep suggesting dates etc and having sex when possible.
What do you do when their birthday is coming up lol.
 

pyros

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jeezzz man... it depends.

If its a fwb I get her something very small, some good chocolates, or some silly small thing like a cheap nice bracelet.

If we're talking about something serious, then I get her a normal present: nice scarf, nail poslish, aromatic bath soap, earrings, a cool bracelet...
 

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pyros said:
jeezzz man... it depends.

If its a fwb I get her something very small, some good chocolates, or some silly small thing like a cheap nice bracelet.

If we're talking about something serious, then I get her a normal present: nice scarf, nail poslish, aromatic bath soap, earrings, a cool bracelet...
I consider her a fwb, but idk what she thinks. Probably going to get **** on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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