"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Should I next or am I just being paranoid

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I've ****** met up with this girl on three occasions and closed on her. She was the one hitting me up to hangout. Well, this weekend she didn't ask. I asked her if she was drinking tonight and she said she didn't want to go out out because of storms, but she might go out of town to visit one of her best friend I just said cool lol and haven't texted her all weekend. I'm dropping her if this friend is some Tyrone Ledarius black guy. The bars are outside and she this isn't the first time she didn't want to go out while it was storming. She was also mad at me this week because I made a FWB joke and she felt insulted and I had to make up some bull **** to get out of it. It seemed like she wanted a relationship, so this is kind of a curve ball. I can't lose a pu$$y source because my last time having sex was like in March man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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so you want to next her because a couple of times she hasn't been up to meeting with you?

I dont see the problem. She has medium interest in you, it happends. Keep suggesting dates etc and having sex when possible.
 
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pyros said:
so you want to next her because a couple of times she hasn't been up to meeting with you?

I dont see the problem. She has medium interest in you, it happends. Keep suggesting dates etc and having sex when possible.
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What do you do when their birthday is coming up lol.
 
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jeezzz man... it depends.

If its a fwb I get her something very small, some good chocolates, or some silly small thing like a cheap nice bracelet.

If we're talking about something serious, then I get her a normal present: nice scarf, nail poslish, aromatic bath soap, earrings, a cool bracelet...
 
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pyros said:
jeezzz man... it depends.

If its a fwb I get her something very small, some good chocolates, or some silly small thing like a cheap nice bracelet.

If we're talking about something serious, then I get her a normal present: nice scarf, nail poslish, aromatic bath soap, earrings, a cool bracelet...
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I consider her a fwb, but idk what she thinks. Probably going to get **** on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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