"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I next or am I just being paranoid

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I've ****** met up with this girl on three occasions and closed on her. She was the one hitting me up to hangout. Well, this weekend she didn't ask. I asked her if she was drinking tonight and she said she didn't want to go out out because of storms, but she might go out of town to visit one of her best friend I just said cool lol and haven't texted her all weekend. I'm dropping her if this friend is some Tyrone Ledarius black guy. The bars are outside and she this isn't the first time she didn't want to go out while it was storming. She was also mad at me this week because I made a FWB joke and she felt insulted and I had to make up some bull **** to get out of it. It seemed like she wanted a relationship, so this is kind of a curve ball. I can't lose a pu$$y source because my last time having sex was like in March man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so you want to next her because a couple of times she hasn't been up to meeting with you?

I dont see the problem. She has medium interest in you, it happends. Keep suggesting dates etc and having sex when possible.
 

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pyros said:
so you want to next her because a couple of times she hasn't been up to meeting with you?

I dont see the problem. She has medium interest in you, it happends. Keep suggesting dates etc and having sex when possible.
What do you do when their birthday is coming up lol.
 

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jeezzz man... it depends.

If its a fwb I get her something very small, some good chocolates, or some silly small thing like a cheap nice bracelet.

If we're talking about something serious, then I get her a normal present: nice scarf, nail poslish, aromatic bath soap, earrings, a cool bracelet...
 

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pyros said:
jeezzz man... it depends.

If its a fwb I get her something very small, some good chocolates, or some silly small thing like a cheap nice bracelet.

If we're talking about something serious, then I get her a normal present: nice scarf, nail poslish, aromatic bath soap, earrings, a cool bracelet...
I consider her a fwb, but idk what she thinks. Probably going to get **** on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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