"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've had a someone very attractive add me and then on Instagram message sent me a message which was empty and with a blue heart.

She also added me on another Instagram profile. I've decided not to follow her back yet.

How can I proceed? What message can I send? She sent me an empty message and I noticed a blue heart.

There could be a meeting and she may introduce me to her friends.

She sent me a blue heart, then she added me to her profile without me sending her a request.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Means nothing at this point ..maybe she is hoping to add you to her orbiter list or potentially try and scam you.

Influencers get paid based on how many followers they have to some extent.

Send her a message and see if you can get her to meet up.
 
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She messaged me saying she can't speak much on email and she gave me her number.

She said you can message me if you like.

What can I comment on that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OP please read the book of Pook. Memorize it.

Women never initiate anything with a random male. Women have a vetting process. Unless you are the brother of this girl’s BFF, what you describe never, ever happens.
 
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I sent her a message back saying nice to meet you and etc on her Instagram and she replied after 14 hours with saying it's nice to meet me etc. I checked who's she's following and it resonates, she has the same surname of people who I assume family members.

Maybe it could be a scam or she may assume by my Instagram I have some money, status etc. She may be a gold digger.

I could be wrong in all of this.
 
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