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I probably would but I've probably done wilder stuff than the majority of the board before i got married.
Maybe you'll need to experience this first hand. Go for it and learn. I wouldn't expect to learn relationship game though.
That was actually a big learning experience for me. As I've gotten older I've felt the need to "accomplish things" and when I found a woman who ticked all of the boxes, I thought it was a smart idea to lock her down, and then find her attractive later. As it turns out, it doesn't work that way. It's important to learn from both success and mistakes.
Going to a sex club/swingers club as a single man is not going to do anything for you from a game perspective. From a game perspective, you'd get more out of directly paying a woman for sex. Going to a sex club/swingers club will just be a waste of time and money and not accomplish anything. On a typical night, you'd be lucky if 1-2 single women showed up. It's going to be mostly older couples trying to have sex with each other and maybe some other creepy, thirsty single men jerking off to watching who thought they could get laid at a sex club instead of going to a bar.
Why did it fall through?
No you definitely wouldn’t learn anything about relationship game from a place like that, but maybe I should go just so I can say that I did.
I just had the thought that this could help get rid of any approach anxiety because if you can approach a woman in a sex club while you’re completely naked, then approaching women anywhere else while you’re fully clothed will be a lot easier. In addition to the fact that I just want something different than a relapse on porn when my sex drive goes up. I would much rather meet up with women in a regular place that isn’t a sex club and have it lead to sex, but I just can’t find any opportunities and its really frustrating. You yourself have even said before that OLD is a bust most of the time (especially swipe apps) and there’s not many other easy ways to meet women.
Yeah I’m sure if anyone there found out that I was inexperienced, they would lose interest pretty quick. Even any single women there probably only want experienced guys who can fu*k her good. I obviously wouldn’t tell anyone there, but maybe they could figure it out by my body language in that environment. I did a deep dive in that club’s forum page and there were posts from other inexperienced men who were asking about going there, so they had the same idea.
Say that you did to whom? Your future girlfriend/wife prospect? DonJuanJr? There is no bragging rights to going to such a place in the state that you are in. It is grasping at straws.
They might ask for your ID to prove you are over 18 years old. Inexperience comes across like you are even a minor.
Yeah on their forum page, some women actually posted pics of themselves in the threads, and none of them were hot and that didn’t really surprise me.
To myself mostly since I’ve been curious about this place for so long. Like I said, if I could find someone a different way, then I probably wouldn’t even consider this.
You just said you are not meeting women to approach in the first place. Why would you need to feel more comfortable about approaching them if you are not having opportunities (ie meaning the women is not there to approach)? Why do you think that experience would really filter down into your normal real-life interactions?
Yeah people said on their forum page you have to show your ID at the front desk. I would probably go with a wallet sized passport card because those don’t have your street address on them and I would be too sketched out to give this place a document that has my address on it.
Yeah I am not because I haven’t had any opportunities in so many years. Because I’ve never approached before and I don’t want my 30’s to be the same way as my teens and 20’s. I thought that if you can approach women when you’re completely naked, then approaching women in regular places and fully clothed would be a lot easier.
You might look like a minor.
Its hit and miss when I get carded for alcohol, so who knows. Do you think I should give AdultFriendFinder a try instead lol
I have said that and I stand by that statement. You're going to have to fix your PIED and living situation first, then figure out your Game situation. Approaching in-person is better than the swipe apps or sending DMs on social media. Approaching in a sex/swingers club is not a good use of time.
I don't think nudity is going to solve your approach anxiety.
