"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I go for sex?

spax

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My girlfriend invited me over this week. Her parents will be out, her siblings at school, just her and me alone in her house.

We have been going out quite a bit (4 months). We have yet to experience 3rd base.

When I am at her house, should I attempt to have sex with her (lose our virginities).

I'm not sure if she'd be ready. I'm her first proper boyfriend.

We are both 17.

Suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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macking

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4 months are enough. I have a friend who after 5 months ****ed his gf ( they're both 17 and they were virgin) .
The time has come ... DO IT :D

Good Luck !
 

danro

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You might want to see how she feels about this first considering you're both still virgins. I know when me and my gf lost our virginity together we had talked about it for awhile and even made plans to make it special. Don't just go in there like a mortar shell from nowhere, could make things really awkward.
 

SmoothTalker

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Of course it depends on the person, but judging purely by your age, 4 months is long enough.

I lost mine at 17 after dating 3 months and I don't think it would have gotten any more special from waiting longer.

Though the fact that you've yet to reach third base is a bit of a concern, might be tough to make the jump from making out to sex in one day for 2 virgins.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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