"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I go for sex?

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spax

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My girlfriend invited me over this week. Her parents will be out, her siblings at school, just her and me alone in her house.

We have been going out quite a bit (4 months). We have yet to experience 3rd base.

When I am at her house, should I attempt to have sex with her (lose our virginities).

I'm not sure if she'd be ready. I'm her first proper boyfriend.

We are both 17.

Suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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4 months are enough. I have a friend who after 5 months ****ed his gf ( they're both 17 and they were virgin) .
The time has come ... DO IT :D

Good Luck !
 
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You might want to see how she feels about this first considering you're both still virgins. I know when me and my gf lost our virginity together we had talked about it for awhile and even made plans to make it special. Don't just go in there like a mortar shell from nowhere, could make things really awkward.
 
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Of course it depends on the person, but judging purely by your age, 4 months is long enough.

I lost mine at 17 after dating 3 months and I don't think it would have gotten any more special from waiting longer.

Though the fact that you've yet to reach third base is a bit of a concern, might be tough to make the jump from making out to sex in one day for 2 virgins.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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