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Should I go for sex?

spax

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My girlfriend invited me over this week. Her parents will be out, her siblings at school, just her and me alone in her house.

We have been going out quite a bit (4 months). We have yet to experience 3rd base.

When I am at her house, should I attempt to have sex with her (lose our virginities).

I'm not sure if she'd be ready. I'm her first proper boyfriend.

We are both 17.

Suggestions?
 

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macking

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4 months are enough. I have a friend who after 5 months ****ed his gf ( they're both 17 and they were virgin) .
The time has come ... DO IT :D

Good Luck !
 

danro

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You might want to see how she feels about this first considering you're both still virgins. I know when me and my gf lost our virginity together we had talked about it for awhile and even made plans to make it special. Don't just go in there like a mortar shell from nowhere, could make things really awkward.
 

SmoothTalker

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Of course it depends on the person, but judging purely by your age, 4 months is long enough.

I lost mine at 17 after dating 3 months and I don't think it would have gotten any more special from waiting longer.

Though the fact that you've yet to reach third base is a bit of a concern, might be tough to make the jump from making out to sex in one day for 2 virgins.
 

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