"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I go for sex?

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spax

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My girlfriend invited me over this week. Her parents will be out, her siblings at school, just her and me alone in her house.

We have been going out quite a bit (4 months). We have yet to experience 3rd base.

When I am at her house, should I attempt to have sex with her (lose our virginities).

I'm not sure if she'd be ready. I'm her first proper boyfriend.

We are both 17.

Suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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4 months are enough. I have a friend who after 5 months ****ed his gf ( they're both 17 and they were virgin) .
The time has come ... DO IT :D

Good Luck !
 
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You might want to see how she feels about this first considering you're both still virgins. I know when me and my gf lost our virginity together we had talked about it for awhile and even made plans to make it special. Don't just go in there like a mortar shell from nowhere, could make things really awkward.
 
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Of course it depends on the person, but judging purely by your age, 4 months is long enough.

I lost mine at 17 after dating 3 months and I don't think it would have gotten any more special from waiting longer.

Though the fact that you've yet to reach third base is a bit of a concern, might be tough to make the jump from making out to sex in one day for 2 virgins.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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