"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I give this new girl a picture? Text Analysis Needed.

Speculator E

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Just got out of a relationship. Been out of the game for a while. Met a new girl from OLD. 21yo from Germany. I got her digits from the site and sent her the text below:

http://imgur.com/a/jLUYW

Not sure if I should give her a picture like she asking or not.
Could use some tips my text game is a little bit rusty.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude99

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Sounds to me like you probably aren't the only guy she is talkingto and she needs a pic to remember which one you are.
 

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Make her send you one first and then return one...this back and forth stuff is pointless. Making her send one first diffuses the compliance test if it is one, which it probably isn't.
 

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I'm not convinced that it's useful to analyze texts.

I stopped reading when she replied, "I don't remember you." Right THERE is when I usually respond with silence or, "Oh ok sorry I must be texting the wrong person. Nevermind ;) ;)"

Also, I would save the charm and wit for the face-to-face meeting. No need to sell her on anything via text.
Yeah, I had that happen a few times...typically I just said "LOL" and deleted their number...good chance they are just going to flake anyways
 

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Make her send you one first and then return one...this back and forth stuff is pointless. Making her send one first diffuses the compliance test if it is one, which it probably isn't.
Good tip. She did what I ask and sent one first almost immediately. Lol. Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've had this happen a few times, some girls just put a pic to every number on their phone. It isn't a big deal, especially if she can see your profile pics on the website. Just send her one, or let her "earn" it, via some sort of game, where you tease her. Or you can ask for a concession in return. Doesn't matter in the slightest and isn't a bad sign.
 
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