Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should I give this new girl a picture? Text Analysis Needed.

Speculator E

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Just got out of a relationship. Been out of the game for a while. Met a new girl from OLD. 21yo from Germany. I got her digits from the site and sent her the text below:

http://imgur.com/a/jLUYW

Not sure if I should give her a picture like she asking or not.
Could use some tips my text game is a little bit rusty.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude99

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Sounds to me like you probably aren't the only guy she is talkingto and she needs a pic to remember which one you are.
 

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Make her send you one first and then return one...this back and forth stuff is pointless. Making her send one first diffuses the compliance test if it is one, which it probably isn't.
 

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I'm not convinced that it's useful to analyze texts.

I stopped reading when she replied, "I don't remember you." Right THERE is when I usually respond with silence or, "Oh ok sorry I must be texting the wrong person. Nevermind ;) ;)"

Also, I would save the charm and wit for the face-to-face meeting. No need to sell her on anything via text.
Yeah, I had that happen a few times...typically I just said "LOL" and deleted their number...good chance they are just going to flake anyways
 

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Make her send you one first and then return one...this back and forth stuff is pointless. Making her send one first diffuses the compliance test if it is one, which it probably isn't.
Good tip. She did what I ask and sent one first almost immediately. Lol. Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've had this happen a few times, some girls just put a pic to every number on their phone. It isn't a big deal, especially if she can see your profile pics on the website. Just send her one, or let her "earn" it, via some sort of game, where you tease her. Or you can ask for a concession in return. Doesn't matter in the slightest and isn't a bad sign.
 
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