"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I give this new girl a picture? Text Analysis Needed.

Speculator E

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Just got out of a relationship. Been out of the game for a while. Met a new girl from OLD. 21yo from Germany. I got her digits from the site and sent her the text below:

http://imgur.com/a/jLUYW

Not sure if I should give her a picture like she asking or not.
Could use some tips my text game is a little bit rusty.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sounds to me like you probably aren't the only guy she is talkingto and she needs a pic to remember which one you are.
 

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Make her send you one first and then return one...this back and forth stuff is pointless. Making her send one first diffuses the compliance test if it is one, which it probably isn't.
 

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I'm not convinced that it's useful to analyze texts.

I stopped reading when she replied, "I don't remember you." Right THERE is when I usually respond with silence or, "Oh ok sorry I must be texting the wrong person. Nevermind ;) ;)"

Also, I would save the charm and wit for the face-to-face meeting. No need to sell her on anything via text.
Yeah, I had that happen a few times...typically I just said "LOL" and deleted their number...good chance they are just going to flake anyways
 

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Make her send you one first and then return one...this back and forth stuff is pointless. Making her send one first diffuses the compliance test if it is one, which it probably isn't.
Good tip. She did what I ask and sent one first almost immediately. Lol. Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've had this happen a few times, some girls just put a pic to every number on their phone. It isn't a big deal, especially if she can see your profile pics on the website. Just send her one, or let her "earn" it, via some sort of game, where you tease her. Or you can ask for a concession in return. Doesn't matter in the slightest and isn't a bad sign.
 
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