I'm just wondering, should I feel bad for seeing the world as one big pick-up environment? I approach anywhere and everywhere. I try to approach at lunch, I try to approach on the bus, I try to approach at track meets, like I said dude, anywhere there's women I approach them. And I don't even have to be attracted to the girl I approach, most of the time I just approach women for the sake of practicing and getting better. But I don't know, I'm starting to feel sort of bad thinking of the world as one big pick up environment. After all you don't see any other guys approaching any and every girl, just to improve their game. It all feels a little weird. I don't even care what age these women are, I mostly approach High School girls, but I'll even approach Middle School girls just for the hell of it.
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Should I feel bad about approaching women, anywhere and everywhere?
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
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You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
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Yeah, but somtimes I wonder what'll happen if someone picks up on this and starts noticing me approaching a bunch of girls everyday. I'm not talking about street approaching, but if you're approaching in an environment like school where the same people go everyday.mr_elor said:Nah mate nothing wrong at all.
You can read as much as you want but it's only practise and experience that really teach you so go for it. More you practise the faster you'll get better
Pook says that if you consistently (and unsuccessfully) approach lots of women that you see everyday, such as fellow students or work colleagues, then you will be labled as "desperate" or "a player." Neither of these is good. So you might want to be careful at school.
Otherwise, no, don't feel bad.
Otherwise, no, don't feel bad.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.