I'm just wondering, should I feel bad for seeing the world as one big pick-up environment? I approach anywhere and everywhere. I try to approach at lunch, I try to approach on the bus, I try to approach at track meets, like I said dude, anywhere there's women I approach them. And I don't even have to be attracted to the girl I approach, most of the time I just approach women for the sake of practicing and getting better. But I don't know, I'm starting to feel sort of bad thinking of the world as one big pick up environment. After all you don't see any other guys approaching any and every girl, just to improve their game. It all feels a little weird. I don't even care what age these women are, I mostly approach High School girls, but I'll even approach Middle School girls just for the hell of it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Should I feel bad about approaching women, anywhere and everywhere?
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Yeah, but somtimes I wonder what'll happen if someone picks up on this and starts noticing me approaching a bunch of girls everyday. I'm not talking about street approaching, but if you're approaching in an environment like school where the same people go everyday.mr_elor said:Nah mate nothing wrong at all.
You can read as much as you want but it's only practise and experience that really teach you so go for it. More you practise the faster you'll get better
Pook says that if you consistently (and unsuccessfully) approach lots of women that you see everyday, such as fellow students or work colleagues, then you will be labled as "desperate" or "a player." Neither of these is good. So you might want to be careful at school.
Otherwise, no, don't feel bad.
Otherwise, no, don't feel bad.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.