I'm just wondering, should I feel bad for seeing the world as one big pick-up environment? I approach anywhere and everywhere. I try to approach at lunch, I try to approach on the bus, I try to approach at track meets, like I said dude, anywhere there's women I approach them. And I don't even have to be attracted to the girl I approach, most of the time I just approach women for the sake of practicing and getting better. But I don't know, I'm starting to feel sort of bad thinking of the world as one big pick up environment. After all you don't see any other guys approaching any and every girl, just to improve their game. It all feels a little weird. I don't even care what age these women are, I mostly approach High School girls, but I'll even approach Middle School girls just for the hell of it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Should I feel bad about approaching women, anywhere and everywhere?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yeah, but somtimes I wonder what'll happen if someone picks up on this and starts noticing me approaching a bunch of girls everyday. I'm not talking about street approaching, but if you're approaching in an environment like school where the same people go everyday.mr_elor said:Nah mate nothing wrong at all.
You can read as much as you want but it's only practise and experience that really teach you so go for it. More you practise the faster you'll get better
Pook says that if you consistently (and unsuccessfully) approach lots of women that you see everyday, such as fellow students or work colleagues, then you will be labled as "desperate" or "a player." Neither of these is good. So you might want to be careful at school.
Otherwise, no, don't feel bad.
Otherwise, no, don't feel bad.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.