"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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should I delete her off of social media.

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ok chick I dated for awhile went cold on me about a month and a half back. not completely cold but just said she had no time started turning more into a bi!ch etc. I was like ok maybe she is busy and me and her just kinda fizzled out. thing is I really liked this chick so i caight feelings. yesterday on her Snapchat story I see her with her ex so I'm 99.9% sure that's why she went cold on me. I'm not said or depressed just pissed. don't even wanna see it. should I delete her off all forms of social media? or just suck it up and not give a fvck.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why do people post sh!t like this? Do whatever you want to.
 

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asking for advice
You didnt do anything with the solid advice that you were given before. We told you there was someone else in the picture and you didnt want to hear it.

Use fvcking common sense. Unless you want to see her sticking her tongue down her ex's throat, delete the b!tch off social media, block her number and stop making threads about her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What he said!
 

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ok chick I dated for awhile went cold on me about a month and a half back. not completely cold but just said she had no time started turning more into a bi!ch etc. I was like ok maybe she is busy and me and her just kinda fizzled out. thing is I really liked this chick so i caight feelings. yesterday on her Snapchat story I see her with her ex so I'm 99.9% sure that's why she went cold on me. I'm not said or depressed just pissed. don't even wanna see it. should I delete her off all forms of social media? or just suck it up and not give a fvck.
You already know the answer to this. Yes. Delete her and move on

When they suddenly go cold there is always another dog in the yard. Go date other women.
 

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I know im an idiot lesson learned!
I would say that every guy on this forum has learned a hard lesson or two. Just make sure you really understand where you went wrong with this woman, which I would assume neediness to be a culprit, and dont make the same mistake twice.

You are to lead a woman physically. You are to follow a woman emotionally once they have taken the emotional hook that you have planted. You are not to over invest emotionally and then get walked on.

Women are funny creatures. Hook them emotionally and physically and they will crave you and literally anything will remind them of you.

Dont over pursue, dont be needy/clingy/desperate or insecure. Be the opposite.

Create the physical/sexual aspect with the woman and let her create the emotional aspects. Thats how you hook them and not run them offm while keeping them craving for more of you.
 

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very very solid advice. I just didn't know if deleting her made me seem like I was clingy in a weird way? like she'll see it and think whybthe fvck did he delete me
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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very very solid advice. I just didn't know if deleting her made me seem like I was clingy in a weird way? like she'll see it and think whybthe fvck did he delete me
What she thinks should no longer matter.
 
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