"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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avrilishot

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I dont know what I should do. I used to be really desperate on trying to have a g/f but now it seems like it doesnt matter to me. I have so much ****t going on that I dont have time for the ladies. I used to have a problem aproaching ladies but now I really dont. The thing is I dont know what I should do. see right now im not interested in having a g/f now but I do like girls. so should I keep on practicing trying to be a dj even though I dont want a g/f right now?


avrilishot
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I dont know what I should do. I used to be really desperate on trying to have a g/f but now it seems like it doesnt matter to me. I have so much ****t going on that I dont have time for the ladies. I used to have a problem aproaching ladies but now I really dont. The thing is I dont know what I should do. see right now im not interested in having a g/f now but I do like girls. so should I keep on practicing trying to be a dj even though I dont want a g/f right now?


avrilishot


Are you ****ing joking me? Man, if you want to be a DJ then make your own decisions. You want my advice? How about since you dont want a gf, go try picking up some dudes.
 
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then take a break from all the pursuing.
always worked for me.
 
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Hey, but wouldn't your mentality give you the advantage here? You pull of DJ methods on the ladies but you don't act as though you were pursuing a girlfriend. I dunno about you guys, but it sounds like the whole "being a challenge" thing. Unless you tell the girl, she wont know whether you're on a search for a girlfriend or not. But because you're really not aiming to get a girlfriend, you might tend to disqualify the girl, making yourself a challenge?

LOL I'm not sure, but I think that's what I see. It might help. Keep searching!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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