should I continue?

[avrilishot]

I dont know what I should do. I used to be really desperate on trying to have a g/f but now it seems like it doesnt matter to me. I have so much ****t going on that I dont have time for the ladies. I used to have a problem aproaching ladies but now I really dont. The thing is I dont know what I should do. see right now im not interested in having a g/f now but I do like girls. so should I keep on practicing trying to be a dj even though I dont want a g/f right now?


avrilishot

 

[splinterkb]

I dont know what I should do. I used to be really desperate on trying to have a g/f but now it seems like it doesnt matter to me. I have so much ****t going on that I dont have time for the ladies. I used to have a problem aproaching ladies but now I really dont. The thing is I dont know what I should do. see right now im not interested in having a g/f now but I do like girls. so should I keep on practicing trying to be a dj even though I dont want a g/f right now?


avrilishot


Are you ****ing joking me? Man, if you want to be a DJ then make your own decisions. You want my advice? How about since you dont want a gf, go try picking up some dudes.

 

[diablo]

DJD...

 

[penkitten]

then take a break from all the pursuing.
always worked for me.

 

[j8snx1]

Hey, but wouldn't your mentality give you the advantage here? You pull of DJ methods on the ladies but you don't act as though you were pursuing a girlfriend. I dunno about you guys, but it sounds like the whole "being a challenge" thing. Unless you tell the girl, she wont know whether you're on a search for a girlfriend or not. But because you're really not aiming to get a girlfriend, you might tend to disqualify the girl, making yourself a challenge?

LOL I'm not sure, but I think that's what I see. It might help. Keep searching!

 

[MightyMate]

You find gf when You dont look for her. Just **** chicks.