"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should i cancel this date?

DJinTraining06

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I just had a really bad acne breakout on my face, it looks awful. Should i cancel my date with this girl tom night? I dont know what to do, cuz theres no guarantee it will clear up by our next date. Tough call. Im 25 and still look like im goin thru puberty with this crap. At least chicks have makeup, wat the hell do i do with mine.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You should be confident enough that regardless of how you look, so long as you don't look like a total slob dirtbag that you're going to do just fine. Guys are naturally ugly. Prettyboys have it easy, because they can be dumb as **** and get away with anything. Average guys need to be clever to attract girls, because girls are attracted to your personality, not your looks. Be clever, be confident, she's not looking at your acne. She's looking at you, as a person.

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Also, come on! Don't be ridiculous.
 

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I occasionally have ridiculous acne on one or two spots on my face and I try not to think about it. I've never rescheduled because of it. I'd say that if you're so self concious about it that you know it'll get your game off or distract you then yeah, cancel. Just make sure you come up with a legitimate excuse and follow through with the excuse, and then reschedule during the same phone call.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
I occasionally have ridiculous acne on one or two spots on my face and I try not to think about it. I've never rescheduled because of it. I'd say that if you're so self concious about it that you know it'll get your game off or distract you then yeah, cancel. Just make sure you come up with a legitimate excuse and follow through with the excuse, and then reschedule during the same phone call.

Yo its horrible, its not like its on one part of my face its on my forehead, sideburn area, both cheeks and chin. Big ones, scabs on soem too its sickening to look at. My face went nuts, not to mention i have tons of recent scars from acne that cleared up in the past few weeks months, so my face is very red. Im on medication but its kicking in slow. I may take ur advice, cuz it really messes up my confidence and game. I feel so agitated and i dont wanna look people in the eye as much which is not good on a date. i've been called a pretty boy a few times, so i feel like my looks r my strong pt not my game at all. My game sucks. I just wish this acne would come out a few dates later so she already was totally into me and woudlnt be disgusted by it.
 

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OMGWTF said:
You should be confident enough that regardless of how you look, so long as you don't look like a total slob dirtbag that you're going to do just fine. Guys are naturally ugly. Prettyboys have it easy, because they can be dumb as **** and get away with anything. Average guys need to be clever to attract girls, because girls are attracted to your personality, not your looks. Be clever, be confident, she's not looking at your acne. She's looking at you, as a person.

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Also, come on! Don't be ridiculous.
Hey what ur saying is true in theory, but all i know is girls were only interested me when i had a clear face. Ibeen struggling with acne since age 13, and girls never wanted anythign to do with me when i had zits. During times where i was able to control it they did like me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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