"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Should i cancel this date?

DJinTraining06

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I just had a really bad acne breakout on my face, it looks awful. Should i cancel my date with this girl tom night? I dont know what to do, cuz theres no guarantee it will clear up by our next date. Tough call. Im 25 and still look like im goin thru puberty with this crap. At least chicks have makeup, wat the hell do i do with mine.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You should be confident enough that regardless of how you look, so long as you don't look like a total slob dirtbag that you're going to do just fine. Guys are naturally ugly. Prettyboys have it easy, because they can be dumb as **** and get away with anything. Average guys need to be clever to attract girls, because girls are attracted to your personality, not your looks. Be clever, be confident, she's not looking at your acne. She's looking at you, as a person.

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Also, come on! Don't be ridiculous.
 

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I occasionally have ridiculous acne on one or two spots on my face and I try not to think about it. I've never rescheduled because of it. I'd say that if you're so self concious about it that you know it'll get your game off or distract you then yeah, cancel. Just make sure you come up with a legitimate excuse and follow through with the excuse, and then reschedule during the same phone call.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
I occasionally have ridiculous acne on one or two spots on my face and I try not to think about it. I've never rescheduled because of it. I'd say that if you're so self concious about it that you know it'll get your game off or distract you then yeah, cancel. Just make sure you come up with a legitimate excuse and follow through with the excuse, and then reschedule during the same phone call.

Yo its horrible, its not like its on one part of my face its on my forehead, sideburn area, both cheeks and chin. Big ones, scabs on soem too its sickening to look at. My face went nuts, not to mention i have tons of recent scars from acne that cleared up in the past few weeks months, so my face is very red. Im on medication but its kicking in slow. I may take ur advice, cuz it really messes up my confidence and game. I feel so agitated and i dont wanna look people in the eye as much which is not good on a date. i've been called a pretty boy a few times, so i feel like my looks r my strong pt not my game at all. My game sucks. I just wish this acne would come out a few dates later so she already was totally into me and woudlnt be disgusted by it.
 

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OMGWTF said:
You should be confident enough that regardless of how you look, so long as you don't look like a total slob dirtbag that you're going to do just fine. Guys are naturally ugly. Prettyboys have it easy, because they can be dumb as **** and get away with anything. Average guys need to be clever to attract girls, because girls are attracted to your personality, not your looks. Be clever, be confident, she's not looking at your acne. She's looking at you, as a person.

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Also, come on! Don't be ridiculous.
Hey what ur saying is true in theory, but all i know is girls were only interested me when i had a clear face. Ibeen struggling with acne since age 13, and girls never wanted anythign to do with me when i had zits. During times where i was able to control it they did like me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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