"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should i cancel this date?

DJinTraining06

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I just had a really bad acne breakout on my face, it looks awful. Should i cancel my date with this girl tom night? I dont know what to do, cuz theres no guarantee it will clear up by our next date. Tough call. Im 25 and still look like im goin thru puberty with this crap. At least chicks have makeup, wat the hell do i do with mine.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You should be confident enough that regardless of how you look, so long as you don't look like a total slob dirtbag that you're going to do just fine. Guys are naturally ugly. Prettyboys have it easy, because they can be dumb as **** and get away with anything. Average guys need to be clever to attract girls, because girls are attracted to your personality, not your looks. Be clever, be confident, she's not looking at your acne. She's looking at you, as a person.

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Also, come on! Don't be ridiculous.
 

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I occasionally have ridiculous acne on one or two spots on my face and I try not to think about it. I've never rescheduled because of it. I'd say that if you're so self concious about it that you know it'll get your game off or distract you then yeah, cancel. Just make sure you come up with a legitimate excuse and follow through with the excuse, and then reschedule during the same phone call.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
I occasionally have ridiculous acne on one or two spots on my face and I try not to think about it. I've never rescheduled because of it. I'd say that if you're so self concious about it that you know it'll get your game off or distract you then yeah, cancel. Just make sure you come up with a legitimate excuse and follow through with the excuse, and then reschedule during the same phone call.

Yo its horrible, its not like its on one part of my face its on my forehead, sideburn area, both cheeks and chin. Big ones, scabs on soem too its sickening to look at. My face went nuts, not to mention i have tons of recent scars from acne that cleared up in the past few weeks months, so my face is very red. Im on medication but its kicking in slow. I may take ur advice, cuz it really messes up my confidence and game. I feel so agitated and i dont wanna look people in the eye as much which is not good on a date. i've been called a pretty boy a few times, so i feel like my looks r my strong pt not my game at all. My game sucks. I just wish this acne would come out a few dates later so she already was totally into me and woudlnt be disgusted by it.
 

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OMGWTF said:
You should be confident enough that regardless of how you look, so long as you don't look like a total slob dirtbag that you're going to do just fine. Guys are naturally ugly. Prettyboys have it easy, because they can be dumb as **** and get away with anything. Average guys need to be clever to attract girls, because girls are attracted to your personality, not your looks. Be clever, be confident, she's not looking at your acne. She's looking at you, as a person.

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Also, come on! Don't be ridiculous.
Hey what ur saying is true in theory, but all i know is girls were only interested me when i had a clear face. Ibeen struggling with acne since age 13, and girls never wanted anythign to do with me when i had zits. During times where i was able to control it they did like me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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