Called a girl last night, she texted she couldnt speak cause she had other things to do, but asked in the text if we could talk today instead. I've waited for the call but now I wonder, is she doing the same thing? Should I call or should I wait for her to call me?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Should I call or should I wait for call?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
OlympicTim
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Call her.
Maximus Rex
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Props for actually calling the broad, however she was blowing you off.
Why are you asking instead of telling and doing?
Spin plates and try again in a week or two, however when you call make sure that you're doing something.
Oh no, sorry, she was asking if we could today instead
Maximus Rex
Banned
She has more important things going on in her life other than you. Do what I said to do.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Do not give your strength to women, your ways to those who destroy kings.
Tictac
Banned
You asked her to call.
She didn't.
Wait at least a week before even thinking about it.
She didn't.
Wait at least a week before even thinking about it.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Texting back and forth talking about what? And how was texting back and forth suppose to benefit you?
Bruh, seriously. Do you think if
she's be to tired to talk?
That's becasue she isn't f*cking with you. Move on.
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Your princess is in another castle.
Don't hold your breath for her. Quit wasting your time on her and move on. She did!
Case closed. Get out of my court.
Don't hold your breath for her. Quit wasting your time on her and move on. She did!
Case closed. Get out of my court.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
I assume she asked if you two could talk the next day. If so I would instantly tell her to call me at X:Y time on that day. If she did not , well its her loss.