Called a girl last night, she texted she couldnt speak cause she had other things to do, but asked in the text if we could talk today instead. I've waited for the call but now I wonder, is she doing the same thing? Should I call or should I wait for her to call me?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Should I call or should I wait for call?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
OlympicTim
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Call her.
Maximus Rex
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Props for actually calling the broad, however she was blowing you off.
Why are you asking instead of telling and doing?
Spin plates and try again in a week or two, however when you call make sure that you're doing something.
Oh no, sorry, she was asking if we could today instead
Maximus Rex
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She has more important things going on in her life other than you. Do what I said to do.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
wifehunter
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Do not give your strength to women, your ways to those who destroy kings.
Tictac
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You asked her to call.
She didn't.
Wait at least a week before even thinking about it.
She didn't.
Wait at least a week before even thinking about it.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Texting back and forth talking about what? And how was texting back and forth suppose to benefit you?
Bruh, seriously. Do you think if
she's be to tired to talk?
That's becasue she isn't f*cking with you. Move on.
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Your princess is in another castle.
Don't hold your breath for her. Quit wasting your time on her and move on. She did!
Case closed. Get out of my court.
Don't hold your breath for her. Quit wasting your time on her and move on. She did!
Case closed. Get out of my court.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
I assume she asked if you two could talk the next day. If so I would instantly tell her to call me at X:Y time on that day. If she did not , well its her loss.