Called a girl last night, she texted she couldnt speak cause she had other things to do, but asked in the text if we could talk today instead. I've waited for the call but now I wonder, is she doing the same thing? Should I call or should I wait for her to call me?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Should I call or should I wait for call?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
OlympicTim
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Call her.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Props for actually calling the broad, however she was blowing you off.
Why are you asking instead of telling and doing?
Spin plates and try again in a week or two, however when you call make sure that you're doing something.
Oh no, sorry, she was asking if we could today instead
Maximus Rex
Banned
She has more important things going on in her life other than you. Do what I said to do.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Do not give your strength to women, your ways to those who destroy kings.
Tictac
Banned
You asked her to call.
She didn't.
Wait at least a week before even thinking about it.
She didn't.
Wait at least a week before even thinking about it.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Texting back and forth talking about what? And how was texting back and forth suppose to benefit you?
Bruh, seriously. Do you think if
she's be to tired to talk?
That's becasue she isn't f*cking with you. Move on.
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Your princess is in another castle.
Don't hold your breath for her. Quit wasting your time on her and move on. She did!
Case closed. Get out of my court.
Don't hold your breath for her. Quit wasting your time on her and move on. She did!
Case closed. Get out of my court.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
I assume she asked if you two could talk the next day. If so I would instantly tell her to call me at X:Y time on that day. If she did not , well its her loss.