Called a girl last night, she texted she couldnt speak cause she had other things to do, but asked in the text if we could talk today instead. I've waited for the call but now I wonder, is she doing the same thing? Should I call or should I wait for her to call me?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Should I call or should I wait for call?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
OlympicTim
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Call her.
Maximus Rex
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Props for actually calling the broad, however she was blowing you off.
Why are you asking instead of telling and doing?
Spin plates and try again in a week or two, however when you call make sure that you're doing something.
Oh no, sorry, she was asking if we could today instead
Maximus Rex
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She has more important things going on in her life other than you. Do what I said to do.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
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wifehunter
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Do not give your strength to women, your ways to those who destroy kings.
Tictac
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You asked her to call.
She didn't.
Wait at least a week before even thinking about it.
She didn't.
Wait at least a week before even thinking about it.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Texting back and forth talking about what? And how was texting back and forth suppose to benefit you?
Bruh, seriously. Do you think if
she's be to tired to talk?
That's becasue she isn't f*cking with you. Move on.
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Your princess is in another castle.
Don't hold your breath for her. Quit wasting your time on her and move on. She did!
Case closed. Get out of my court.
Don't hold your breath for her. Quit wasting your time on her and move on. She did!
Case closed. Get out of my court.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
I assume she asked if you two could talk the next day. If so I would instantly tell her to call me at X:Y time on that day. If she did not , well its her loss.