Should i call her?

[cfajason]

Guys i need some advice here.....this girl that i have been dating for about 3 weeks all the suddhen stopped calling me Its been 5 days since we last talked....i tried to call her then,but she hung up Should i call one last time?Im really want to see her again,dont know what went wrong.

 

[Bussey]

Originally posted by cfajason
Its been 5 days since we last talked....i tried to call her then,but she hung up

Uhhh.... Seems to answer your question right there. Next.

 

[frivolousz21]

call her and see whats up?

then move on

 

[joekerr31]

life is too short to deal with drama b*tches like this chic.

if you're friend didn't call you and when you called him he hung up on you what would be your reaction?

i'd consider him dead and move on.

so why would you show this chic any other kind of response?

J

 

[cfajason]

I tried to call one last time...she didnt pick up....im moving on.

 

[flexion_]

Unfortunately you'll never find out what went wrong other than it do go wrong so just move on.

 

[cfajason]

Yes you are right,and thats what bugs me,that i dont know where it went wrong

 

[Drewgie]

Might be a test. Just don't call her. Forget about her. Move on with life, work towards your goals, whatever they may be, and stay busy. If she's more than an attention wh0re and worth being around she'll call and say something along the lines of "where have YOU been?" in which case you can bust her balls and say "avoiding YOU!!!"

Bottom line: don't be clingy. Create some space between you and her. If she calls after a few weeks, awesome. If she doesn't, awesome. Just keep on working on YOURSELF despite what's happening in your love life. You = #1 don't forget it!

 

[salsipuedes]

Originally posted by cfajason
Guys i need some advice here.....this girl that i have been dating for about 3 weeks all the suddhen stopped calling me Its been 5 days since we last talked....i tried to call her then,but she hung up Should i call one last time?Im really want to see her again,dont know what went wrong.

1st, kill the needy attitude, regardless of whats going on you can't become needy or its over, be calm about the situation, i think that a person that stops calling that sudden has problems communicating, if you did something wrong a normal person would tell you ( she didnt), if she found another guy a normal person would tell you (she didnt), so shes obviously not 100% in the emotional department. My suggestion is send her an email, tell her your sending the email as a friend, not as a boyfriend, tell her that there must be something wrong for her to be acting this irrational, and that since you cant get into her head, your not going to try to figure this one out (basically your saying, i am not going to bother with your crap), offer her your friendship, be polite, helpful, but not needy, and then say goodbye.

If she contacts you she will explain what happened, if she doesnt, shes a ****ing wacko, your lucky to get rid of her.

 

[BigFoot]

Basically I agree with the last two responses, although it's rarely clear what is going on in situations like this. If you had a mutual friend maybe you could find out.

 

[cfajason]

She called me yesterday after i posted telling me she was working....anyways im gonna avoid her.